Aubrey Plaza is opening up for the first time about the profound loss of her husband, filmmaker Jeff Baena, who tragically took his own life in January. The couple had been separated for several months prior to his passing, a detail that has added to the complexity of an already heartbreaking situation. The public scrutiny surrounding such a personal tragedy has undoubtedly intensified the challenges Plaza has faced as she navigates her grief.
In a recent episode of Amy Poehler’s “Good Hang” podcast, Plaza shared her experiences during what she described as “the most difficult year” of her life. Reflecting on her current state, she expressed gratitude for the moments of joy in her life: “Right in this very, very present moment, I feel happy to be with you,” she told Poehler. “Overall, I’m here and I’m functioning. I’m very grateful to be moving through the world and feel okay.”
During the candid conversation, Plaza likened her grief to the upcoming film “Gorge,” featuring Anya Taylor-Joy and Miles Teller as snipers guarding a vast chasm filled with unknowns. “That’s what my grief feels like or what grief could be like,” she explained. “At all times, there’s a giant ocean of just awfulness that’s just right there and I can see it. Sometimes I just want to dive into it and be in it. And sometimes I look at it and sometimes I just try to get away from it, but it’s always there.”
When Poehler inquired about how Plaza finds joy in her life despite the weight of her grief, she highlighted the importance of her close-knit circle of friends. “A group of my women friends… we have, like, a text chain and we do Zooms and trips, and those girls make me laugh really, really hard.”
In a heartfelt tribute to Baena, Plaza made a brief appearance during the 50th anniversary celebration of “Saturday Night Live” in February, wearing a tie-dyed t-shirt reminiscent of the attire she and Baena wore at their wedding in 2020. The gesture served not only as a personal homage but also as a testament to the lasting bond they shared.
Baena’s family released a public statement shortly after his death, expressing their grief and gratitude for the support they have received during this challenging time. “This is an unimaginable tragedy. We are deeply grateful to everyone who has offered support. Please respect our privacy during this time,” the family wrote.
As Aubrey Plaza continues to heal, her openness about her struggle reflects a broader trend in celebrity culture, where vulnerability and authenticity are increasingly embraced. Fans and fellow celebrities alike have rallied around her, expressing their condolences and support on social media platforms. Plaza’s experience highlights the importance of mental health awareness, as well as the necessity of community in times of grief.
The entertainment industry has seen a rise in discussions surrounding mental health, especially following the tragic losses of other beloved figures. Plaza’s journey may serve as a catalyst for further dialogues about the pressures faced by public figures and the essential conversations around mental health that need to occur.
As Aubrey Plaza moves forward, her ability to articulate her feelings of loss and resilience invites a deeper understanding among her fans. The journey through grief is unique for everyone, and Plaza’s story reminds us that it is okay to seek support and find joy amidst the pain. Our thoughts remain with her and all those affected by Baena’s untimely passing as they navigate this difficult chapter of their lives.