AJ McLean, the famed Backstreet Boys singer, is opening up about his journey of coparenting with his estranged wife, Rochelle McLean. In a recent exclusive interview with Us Weekly, AJ shared insights into their evolving relationship as they navigate their separation while focusing on their two daughters, Elliott, 12, and Lyric, 8.
Reflecting on their current dynamic, AJ, 47, emphasized the importance of maintaining a positive environment for their children. “We’re doing good,” he stated, noting that both he and Rochelle, 43, are committed to coparenting to the best of their abilities. “We have a family together that’s obviously not going anywhere,” he added, highlighting the enduring love they share despite their changed relationship status.
Since announcing their separation in March 2023, AJ and Rochelle have made significant strides in their relationship. AJ explained that they have been spending quality time together as a family and even going on occasional dates, which he sees as a positive development. “Now things are completely different, but I think different in a good way for both of us,” he remarked, expressing hope for their future.
The couple’s separation was not without its challenges, particularly for AJ, who has been open about his struggles with sobriety and the demands of his career. He acknowledged that there was a long period of distance between them, often due to his touring schedule and his journey toward sobriety. However, he believes that their recent efforts to reconnect have led to a healthier dynamic.
The former couple, who tied the knot in December 2011, initially decided to separate temporarily to focus on personal growth and their marriage. In January 2024, they announced their decision to officially end their marriage, stating, “It is with deep love and respect that we have made this decision.” Despite the split, AJ and Rochelle remain dedicated to their daughters and each other, emphasizing the importance of their family unit.
AJ has expressed optimism about the possibility of reconciliation in the future, stating that they are in a better place than they have been in a long time. “I think we’re in the best place we’ve almost ever been. So, you know, there’s high hopes for the future. Who knows?” he said, reflecting on their ongoing relationship.
In addition to his personal life, AJ is also making waves in his professional career. He is currently promoting his new Netflix series, “Building the Band,” which premieres on July 9. The show focuses on the journey of artists coming together to form bands based on chemistry and compatibility, a concept AJ is passionate about. He described the experience as inspiring and a testament to the incredible talent showcased on the show.
As he balances his career and family life, AJ has praised Rochelle for her dedication as a mother, especially during his touring commitments. He acknowledged the challenges of their busy schedules and the demands of parenting, calling mothers “literal superheroes” for their unwavering support.
In the midst of his busy life, AJ is focused on maintaining his sobriety and being present for his daughters. “I’m just trying to stay focused on my sobriety, my kids, spending time with my family,” he shared. His commitment to self-improvement and nurturing his relationship with Rochelle, even amidst their separation, is a testament to his growth as both an artist and a father.
As AJ McLean continues to navigate this new chapter in his life, fans can expect to see more of him, both on stage with the Backstreet Boys and as a host on Netflix’s “Building the Band.” With a focus on family and personal growth, AJ is determined to embrace the future with hope and positivity.