Whitney Leavitt found herself in a challenging position during the reunion special of *The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives*, which premiered on Hulu on July 1, 2025. The 32-year-old reality star often felt “called out” by host Nick Viall as she defended her friend and co-star Demi Engemann, who was absent from the reunion.
Throughout the episode, Whitney faced numerous probing questions from Nick, 44, particularly regarding Demi’s behavior. One notable moment occurred when Nick asked Whitney if she believed Taylor Frankie Paul was “better at taking accountability” than Demi. Whitney’s nuanced response of “yes and no” prompted Nick to push further, asking if she considered herself superior to Taylor in this regard. Whitney hesitated, stating, “No, I don’t think that I’m the one to judge that.” Nick countered, “I’m not asking you to judge it. I’m asking you what you think,” escalating the tension.
Whitney ultimately expressed that she felt both she and Taylor were “equal” in their accountability. However, Nick’s follow-up question—whether they were “equally good or equally bad”—added to the discomfort. As Nick conducted a poll among the group about Taylor’s accountability, Whitney voiced her frustration, feeling that Nick’s questioning was unfair. “It’s so double standard,” she said, referencing Mikayla Matthews, who she felt belittled her. Whitney insisted that it was unjust for others to judge her actions based on their feelings.
The atmosphere grew increasingly tense as Whitney expressed her discomfort with Nick’s persistent questioning. “I feel like I’ve heard Taylor taking accountability for a lot of things. She does a lot of things, too,” Nick remarked, to which Whitney asserted that his perspective was merely his opinion. Her husband, Conner Leavitt, later joined the discussion, and Whitney confided to castmates Jessi Ngatikaura and Layla Taylor that she felt “so confused” about the unfolding dynamics.
The episode continued to explore the complexities of the relationships among the cast members, particularly focusing on Demi, who was labeled a bully by some. Whitney acknowledged that Demi had “tendencies” to be mean but defended her friend against the harsh label. This prompted Nick to ask about the distinction between being a bully and having “bully tendencies.” Whitney responded, “This is me speaking from my heart. I feel like it’s so double standard when Demi is saying hurtful things, which isn’t OK.” She argued that public comments made by Jessi about her could also be considered bullying.
Jessi, 30, disagreed with Whitney’s assessment, clarifying that her comments were valid reflections of her experiences. Nick, known for his podcast *The Viall Files*, chimed in, emphasizing the difference between responding to questions and intentionally hurting someone. Throughout the reunion, Whitney appeared visibly uncomfortable, though she did not revisit her issues with Nick’s questioning.
As the reunion unfolded, it became evident that the dynamics among the cast had shifted since the show’s debut in September 2024. Season 2 began filming shortly after the first season’s success, revealing significant changes in the personal lives of the cast members. Fans of *The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives* have been captivated by the unfolding drama, eager to see how the relationships evolve.
The reunion special is currently streaming on Hulu, offering fans a closer look at the tensions and complexities of the cast’s interactions. Whitney Leavitt’s candid moments and her struggles with accountability are sure to resonate with viewers, providing a glimpse into the realities of life as a reality TV star.