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Michelle Obama recently addressed the swirling rumors about her marriage to former President Barack Obama in a light-hearted manner, putting to rest speculation about their relationship. During an episode of NPR’s “Wild Card” podcast on June 26, 2025, the former First Lady quipped, “The fact that people don’t see me going on a date with my husband sparks rumors of the end of our marriage. It’s the apocalypse.” Michelle, now 61, expressed her preference for living in the moment rather than documenting every aspect of her life on social media. “It’s like, OK, so we don’t Instagram every minute of our lives. We are 60,” she joked with host Rachel Martin. “You just are not gonna know what we’re doing every minute of the day. Yes, I guess we are famous, but we’re 60. We don’t take selfies.” The Obamas have been candid about their relationship over the years, often addressing rumors head-on. The couple, who tied the knot in 1992, share two daughters: Malia, born in 1998, and Sasha, born in 2001. Michelle has previously opened up about the importance of transparency in her marriage, emphasizing that their bond is built on mutual respect and hard work. Barack, 63, even joined in on the humor surrounding the rumors, playfully noting, “You don’t even take pictures of anything we do,” to which Michelle responded, “I’m not thinking about a picture.” Their ability to communicate openly has been a cornerstone of their relationship, helping them navigate the challenges that come with life in the public eye. In October 2024, the former President celebrated their 32nd wedding anniversary by sharing a heartfelt message on social media. “Happy anniversary, @MichelleObama! 32 years together, and I couldn’t have asked for a better partner and friend to go through life with,” he wrote. This sentiment was echoed on Mother’s Day, when Barack praised Michelle for her role as a mother, stating, “@MichelleObama, the girls and I are so lucky to have you in our lives. We love you.” This isn’t the first time Michelle has had to address rumors about her marriage. After not attending Donald Trump’s inauguration in January, speculation about their relationship intensified. In response, she clarified, “Like, people couldn’t believe that I was saying no for any other reason, that they had to assume that my marriage was falling apart.” She emphasized the importance of owning her choices and making decisions that are right for her. Michelle also shared insights into how they maintain their strong bond. In a May episode of “The Diary of a CEO” podcast, she discussed the reality of marriage, stating, “Even when everything works out and you got everything right, it’s still going to be hard because now you’re developing a life.” She believes that people often give up too quickly on marriage due to the inherent challenges that arise. As the Obamas continue to navigate their lives together, they remain committed to each other and their family. Their relationship serves as a testament to the power of communication, understanding, and humor in overcoming obstacles. With Michelle’s candid remarks and Barack’s supportive gestures, it’s clear that their love story is far from over, and they are ready to face whatever comes next—together.